Interview with Anya

• Do you like being an escort? What do you enjoy most in it? What is important and have value for you in it?
  
  meeting and connecting with really lovely people, having fun and making an emotional connection that even though is temporary, is still very genuine.
   
  
  
• What don't you like about being an escort?
  
  that people assume i don't have a life outside of this, or that i have no goals/ambitions
   
  
  
• What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
  
  I prefer to establish communication with a new friend as far in advance as possible so that when we do meet, there is no awkwardness, rather it's like meeting up with an old friend. I have great intuition and very easily pick up on what makes someone tick. What makes me unique is the skills that I've been trained in here in Japan, and time with me is much more of a date than merely a booking.
   
  
  
• How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
  
  Dates can be made by email or by phone. Discretion of my friends is very important, which can make screening by asking for phone numbers or other 'close to home' information uncomfortable for them. If I haven't had extensive conversations with them, I will ask for a phone number and to protect their privacy, I will call them from a payphone.
   
  
  
• What types of clients you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
  
  I will not agree to meet with anyone who requests bareback or tries to change my mind as to what i will and won't do. i do not take drugs or drink to excess either, and prefer that my date does not either. I respect my friends limits and strongly feel they need to respect mine as well. also, i refuse anyone who tries to haggle my rates.
   
  
  
• When you visit a client, what kind of environment do you expect a client to provide?
  
  It depends on the type of date we're having. I can meet up with someone at their hotel, or we can meet at a cafe/bar and then move on to a love hotel. I do not take incalls, and I prefer not to visit a client's home, unless we have met previously and he is single.
   
  
  
• Do you have any particular requirements regarding hygiene? What are the guidelines that your client should follow?
  
  Hygiene is always important! I keep myself very clean and it makes the experience much more fun for both of us if my date is also concerned about hygiene.
   
  
  
• Describe your common HIV/STD prevention procedures. What kind of tests and how often do you pass? Are the test results available upon request?
  
  I am tested for all STIs every 6 weeks.
   
  
  
• What are your rates?
  
  in japan, 45000¥ for the first hour, 20000¥ per hour after. a 'dinner date' (two hours social, one hour private) is 80000¥. travelling, 24 hour, other arrangements are by agreement
   
  
  
• Are there additional charges for "extras"? If so, what are these?
  
  travel outside of kansai (unless i am already in the area on other business) and hotel is at my date's expense.
   
  
  
• What payment options are available? How would you prefer the client to pay?
  
  cash only, unless it's a travel situation, in which a bank transfer deposit is required.
   
  
  
• How would you prefer the money to be given? Please describe step-by-step payment procedure. What guidelines should a client follow to make the payment convenient and risk-free for you.
  
  cash in an open envelope to be left on the desk/table, within 10 minutes of meeting. the payment procedure is always awkward, and i would prefer not to have to ask.
   
  
  
• If you accept credit or debit cards, how will charges appear on a credit card statement?
  
  
  i don't accept credit cards or paypal. if it's an extended/travel date, a bank transfer to my offshore company account would be required and i would provide an invoice. generally i invoice for 'consultation services', but can word it any way convenient for my friend.
   
  
  
• If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
  
  i think it's very sweet when a friend wants to give me a gift, but i absolutely don't expect one. i'm a girlie girl, so of course i love flowers and lingerie. i'm very into music. however, the best gift i can get is to know that i've made someone happy and satisfied. :)
   
  
  
• Do you travel? If so, what does that involve on the client's part?
  
  i travel a LOT. i have a home in a warm place outside of japan which i retreat to as often as possible. i am also in london a lot. i have had requests to travel everywhere from america to hong kong and am definitely open to any suggestions. the expense of travel is my date's responsibility. i will do all the booking of flights and such, and then will be billed as part of the deposit.
   
  
  
• Do you allow kisses?
  
  absolutely!
   
  
  
• If a client wants, will you engage in a role play? What kind of?
  
  one of my specialities is role play, which is one reason i like to establish as much communication as possible. i have extensive experience in the bdsm scene and am a 'switch', so i can take on either role. i particularly enjoy helping someone experience things for the first time and discovering new things about themselves.
   
  
  
• How do you handle a situation where a client may want to get "wild and crazy"?
  
  
  depends on how you define 'wild and crazy'. if that means doing things that i have already said no to, then the date would end immediately and i would leave. if upon meeting a date is high or really drunk, i would rather leave and meet at another time.
   
  
  
• How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
  
  this is something i specialise in, making first time experiences very comfortable and relaxed. regardless if it's a role playing or just vanilla date, i am very happy to take the lead.
   
  
  
• What are your feelings about and attitude to participating as an escort in group parties, where several escorts serve several clients?
  
  
  i don't do parties
   
  
  
• What is your attitude towards tobacco, alcohol and drugs? Do you drink or smoke yourself? Do you allow the client to do it during your meeting?
  
  i enjoy the odd cigar, especially phillies chocolate blunts, however in general, i am not a smoker. i do enjoy a good glass of wine, and will indulge in one glass with a date, but i will not get drunk or take drugs during a date and prefer my partner to also stay sober.
   
  
  
• What are the most usual types of "difficult" clients you meet? What would you like to warn them about in advance?
  
  i have been very fortunate in all my dates being a lot of fun and without any problems. again, because there is a lot of communication prior to meeting, if it seems like there could be a problem, i will discontinue communication and not agree to meet.
   
  
  
• What are the things that excite you or appeal to you when on a "date"? What turns you on?
  
  laughter is the biggest turn on for me. getting into someone's head during role play is also a big turn on. knowing that someone is really excited also makes me really aroused as well.
   
  
  
• What are your sexual preferences? What kinds of activity do you enjoy most of all?
  
  i enjoy role playing and really getting inside each other's heads. i like playing with girls too.
   
  
  
• What was your most funny sexual experience?
  
  it was a non escorting experience, but it was in a hotel on the 36th floor and a really strong earthquake happened. we both fell off the bed and i smacked my head on the bedside table and knocked myself out. it wasn't funny at the time, but now it's pretty funny.
   
  
  
• What was your most funny escorting experience?
  
  trying to find the right train to meet up with my date. it was in another country and i got on the wrong train. in the end, he drove to meet me at a totally different station.
   
  
  
• Hypothetical situation: your best friend, or your sister, or your daughter tells you that she wants to get into escort business. Would you encourage her to do it?
  
  it would obviously depend on why they want to get into it, but i'd say go for it!
   
  
  
• If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
  
  i would advise them to think about it for awhile and research as much as possible via forums and other girl's sites. chat with and get to know other escorts. definitely spend a lot of time thinking about why they want to get into it, write a list of the pros and cons. if 'because i have to' is anywhere in their thoughts though, i would advise against it.
   
  
  
• What are your hobbies and passions, things you love to do and discuss? Music genres, movies, reading preferences etc.? What other talents do you have?
  
  i love reading, films, cycling, abseiling,
  my music tastes are really varied, i love just about everything. and reading...well, i love to read anything i can get my hands on!
   
  
  
• What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
  
  i have several projects that i'm working on both in my home country and japan, and my goals are to see them through and make them successful.
   
  
  
• Anything else to add?
  
  that this is the longest interview/faq of any website i have ever done! ;)
   
  
  

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