Forum - Dating an escort

Would any of you hobbyists ever date a woman that was working as an escort or marry a woman that's a "working girl" currently? Would it matter if she had retired?

Seeing as none of the men are answering your questions I will. Yes, some would. But, for some men I would advise against it unless you are ready to hear stories of bad experiences. We generally do not tell the good so you do not become jealous. :p

Men have, will and do. In today's industrial society it, generally, takes 2 incomes to have a decent place to live and to be able to enjoy the life you'd like to have. If you have children you are going to need 2 incomes just to survive.

Do you only date virgins? Are you only willing to marry a woman who is a virgin and will stay at home and take care of the kids? Are you wealthy?

What difference does it make what type of profession she works in? She's working to support the both of you and your family. This is a decision that only the people involved can make.

i am currently dating,my girlfriend does not mind it

Hi ,That's a good question....actually ,thinking of it ,I would not mind that at all,if I did ,then what am I doing in this website!!!!!But knowing what a narrow mind the Indian male has, I think even in the new generation ,90% of the men would not marry a ex-retired escort.Pier pressure you know, from society,elders maybe God Himself/ Herself.

I would say- that most men would say they don't mind. But what I have learned is that it's best to keep it to yourself...because in the end a man's pride gets in the way..and most can't deal with it..

xoxoMaddy

My man does'nt mind it at all ................ you just have to be with a man secure enough in his manhood to accept it.

Same me. My bf does not mind.

Instead it can get exciting when together. Just be secured in the relationship. also be open and do not hide anything. In today's world many people like swinging, so what is the difference?

However, true, you must be able to accept "bad" stories....

Did you ever propose your boyfriend to work in a couple
Apie?

yes of course...lol
and we did, do...
He is very open minded and i am too. no problem. Good is to be open and talk and if relationship is ok all is fine.

Apie, you're really a happy couple that is so rare in this business.

WOW!
And didn't he use to be an escort before? ;)

it is rare? so i guess am very lucky....
Well, we are ok together and as said talk a lot together etc. None of you have good relations?

hi, i'm new here... just browsing / scouting around
saw this topic and felt compelled to reply...

two of my mates were dating working girls back when they were younger... on average their relationiships lasted for about a year or so... so yes... hobbyists DO date / get into relationships with escorts / working girls

as for me.. personally i don't see an issue as long as both parties are clear that work is work and obviously she needs to separate her work from her private life... as in, not be dating every other hobbyists that wants to pamper her.

i'm strongly for being truthful and upfront about your profession if u want to get into a serious relationship, else it won't last and you're better off with having flings with your favourite hobbyist of the day.

just my 2 cents ;)

EXACTLY.dated a escort in Thailand for a year but she was too secretive about her proffesion. I could handle her workng but could not handle the close links she formed with her customers ( or had they become boyfriends ) She would never check her personal e mail box when i was with her,and would never let me see sms she sent or recieved.I looked at her phone one night when she was having a shower,she was sendng loving sms to 6 guys on a daily basis,exactly the same loving sms that she was sending ME.I felt like i was part of her harem!!!! and called it a day.She is still active in Asia,and so am i.It will work for BOTH ONLY if both are honest with each other and customers DON'T become boyfriends.If the escort work and personal relationships are kept separate,then it can work,but for me when i saw she sent other guys loving sms on a daily basis behind my back,i felt something wasn't good and left.