Forum - Girlfriend experience

I have a question for both service providers and hobbyist alike and its about “the total girlfriend experience”.

What do service providers mean by those words, what they offer and more to the point what they don’t offer.

For hobbyist what would you expect from someone who offered girlfriend experience, and what wouldn’t you expect.

As for me - I define it as something that maintains the difference between a prostitute and an escort girl. The girl presents that she is ready to be a Person for Person, a mate, a friend - not just a pussy for someone's dick.

hi,for me it mean a longer than a short time with someone,go out,have meal or some drink or cinema,shopping,even a few days by the beach together in a hotel.It different when someone just want you go nvisit hotel 2 hour than someone that want and like spent time together.

I think it alot different than just the short time appointment too.If stay some time together with someone then can get to know person better over a period of time,what they like and what they don't like.If stay someone a longer time and maybe travel round with they then get to know they better as person and not just customer.I think what service escort do in relation to this varied from person to person.

A Girlfriend Experience is where is a Girlfriend. A Girl and a Friend in one person. Decide yourself what's the main keyword here.

Girlfriend experience... an experience given by a provider to the client as if they are lovers.No awkwardness.No extra efforts.All things should be smooth and natural.But it requires a chemistry for both parties to have this experience.

For me, the GFE experience must include LFK or DFK, DATY, and CBJ or BBBJ at the very least. No oral sex without exchange of bodily fluids means no GFE. It's that simple! Otherwise, it is just a hobbyist/escort hookup.

To me, the underlying premise of Girlfriend Experience (GFE) is: girlfriend = intimacy, and experience = an emotional connection ... an intimate, emotional connection that is meaningful to both partners, such that the feeling of 'having a girlfriend' is indistinguishable from the real thing.

If you don't acknowledge the intimacy and emotional underpinnings of GFE then what you have stated is just a cold, sterile list of sex acts that you can get from any prostitute if you are willing to pay, and she is desperate enough. It just will not feel like you have 'a girlfriend'.

Your description of GFE is a common male-centric fantasy. I can tell you that if you don't reciprocate the intimacy and emotion, then you will not have a girlfriend (for long), either real or virtual.

And I shake my head at your comment:

This is a flippant trivialization of the real risks of STDs. So do I want to have a 'boyfriend' experience with someone who only defines a 'girlfriend' as someone willing to do specific unsafe sex acts? Not!

See the GFE definition in The Big Doggie glossary here.

To me GFE has to do with pure intimacy. Peeling back the pretense and allowing to be yourself. I am an affectionate kissable very friendly lady and thats what I offer and who I am. The rest just seems to seamlessly fit in.

I'm sorry I haven't posted in a while but I am all over the boards and this one just gets missed !

Kisses Haley

Of course, or you'll have to use another chemistry...
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French Kissing (LFK, DFK) is probably the original element of the Girlfriend Experience. As a general rule, prostitutes do not kiss ... especially French Kiss, because it is considered too intimate of an emotional exposure that blurs the line between work and personal life. The need to compartmentalize feelings varies with the lady and her personal situation.

The term "Your Mileage Will Vary" (YMWV) applies with escorts offering companionship services such as GFE. The experience will vary depending on the chemistry between the two parties (which gets back to intimacy and emotional connection). The level of intimacy and emotional involvement is decided by the lady. If you disrespect the underlying intimacy and emotion, you are disrespecting the lady and you will only get a pale imitation of the "girlfriend experience."

Dominixe, you've genially noticed some very important aspects. GFE first of all needs creative and intuitive methods of approaching. If fact we can see that one guy can reduce the experience even with the best escort girl to a banal quickie - and the Best Girl can do nothing with it. And another guy appears to be able to make an excellent and full of romance affair even with a vulgar pavement Ho. And the Ho will feel so great as never felt before!

I agree Kotikkk. Another description for this is it takes two to tango ... you give as much as you take in balance in a sharing of pleasure. The balance is not just in physical pleasure, but mental and emotional as well. When there is mutual balance, the experience can be mind-blowing! When there is imbalance, the experience will be dissatisfying.

It's funny when some guys hump on an elite escort girl, take a quick shot and then shout - What have I pay for?!! Is THIS an elite gal?!!
I like the word DICKHEAD, it is the best description for such lads.
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Girlfriend experience is when you feel like you are with your sweetheart girlfriend and forget about your payment. I know that I'm describing some kind of ideal case but it is clear for me that it takes two, as you dominixe said.