Forum - To Dominate or To Be Dominated

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you are most kind. Thank you a lot! A pity we do not live closer... Hope you are ok and take care

I think it's super sexy when the woman has the control!

My vote: DOMINATED

Domination can be verbal, can involve light or heavy bondage, and can include light, moderate or heavy pain play. It's not necessarily all one thing or another. I believe that, with an open mind, a person can enjoy both giving and receiving with a trusted partner.

Domination need not involve humiliation. I am not into humiliation at all.

Domination need not involve pain. But even when it does, keep in mind that erotic pain play is not at all like a trip to the dentist! You can mix "painful" stimuli with sensual stimuli. You can incorporate pain play into foreplay. I've talked people who've never done it before into trying bondage and spanking and clothes pins (not all at once, mind you) and they've liked it. Of course, it was a two-way street.

I love bondage and erotic pain play, both giving and receiving.

I like giving and recieving both; but only from the one I would be spending the rest of my life with like a husband for life. I agree that it would have to be with someone you trust very well.
I wish all of you the best,have fun, and play safe.
Hugs,
12pleaseu

MMMMMMMM.....I LOVE to be dominated. Nothing like a big strong man to do with me as he wishes.
It is hard for me to be dominant as I am naturally on the submissive side but would love to give it a go.....would like to hear a man beg me....

Pleasure and pain with domination can feel very good and be very pleasurable when each person involved is into it and consentual between them. I myself have only experienced only one time in my life several years ago with an ex boyfriend some domination where he dominated with me in bondage and it was pleasurable at the time.
Hugs,
12pleaseu

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I've always been submissive and I enjoy being dominated. Not as in BD/SM but I like my guys to take control of the situation and use me how they wish. I find it to be a real turn on for me when the guy wants something and uses his strength to get it, for example he wants a blowjob I get all excited as he's pushing my head toward his cock and once between my lips he pushes my head down on his cock. I also love it when we're getting down to the actual intercourse when he pushes and moves me how he wants me then forcefully enters me going from the head of his cock touching me to balls deep in one thrust. For me that's an instant orgasm. I've had occasions where I've tried to dominate and just couldn't do it so I had to refer them to a call girl who does do domination. I'm just as submissive with a woman also.

I LOVE being dominated!
Dont mind doing a little light domination, but would rather be the submissive in the situation!

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I am the Dominate one.

If say about the photo, it's completely your style.

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I'm a women who likes to be in charge. I have tons of toys and love to use them. I have used a paddle,flogger, restraints, blindfold, the heel of my shoe and my favorite toy is a pink leather strapon.

The one thing I always let my friends know is that at any time you need a little tenderness we can move on to a different mood. I am very affectionate and understanding of changes that take place with human needs and wants.

Kisses Haley

I can remember one other time last year when I had a short relationship with a guy that tied me up(someone I trusted at the time;) and he spanked me with his hands and a paddle while fucking me. He even had me deepthroating him several times. He even bit my nipples a lot while sucking hard until they were red. It was an amazing feeling. I think I can be pretty submissive a lot of times. I was very submissive to him. My relationship with him ended; but at least I have some very good memories.

Once a girl offered me to play with a strapon. But it seemed me too thick and I could only offer her to take a passive role! 8)

I prefer being in a dominated role, and often my clients like me to take that role - so it´s okay for everyone. Being a bit dominated in bed is just part of my "real" role in bed, of course i can also be dominant while working. But in the real life i want my partner to be the dominant one.