Forum - To Dominate or To Be Dominated

hey ladies, thank you very much for your nice comments. Well, a pity you - jj - stay in nashville and not closer... You sound very fun too...! hope all ok for you and going well

I have. But, only with a couple clients. I'm a bit selective as to who I go that far with. I had seen both several times, a trust level of sorts was built. Safe words were given and used, as well. They were both skilled at it, too. Prior experience can be important. I wouldn't go there with someone who is unskilled, unless he is willing to be educated about it before hand.

the "safe word". sure most important and of a must. However, again, ifyou do not know that person than all is a risk. Safe word is to be used but what if the otherperson does not listen or stop.

As said, i like and was dominated but i usually refuse with csutomers for the reason i explained

You're right. However, the same can be said for non customers, too. BDSM requires trust, regardless of if the Dominant one is a client or not.

JJ,

Zip lining, repelling, rock climbing, white water rafting and sailing all require ropes. I was an Eagle Boy Scout and am an experienced sailor (sail boats). I'd like to show you how I can tie some knots. Interested?

I'm going to have to do a web seach and see what kind of fun can be had in Nashville. :)))

The lady I see in Vancouver is submissive but let's me know how she like to be dominated, so in that aspect she is agressive.

We have a safe word and a tap out established. The safe word is stop! Simple! Once, when spanking her, she said, "not so hard." I'm not into causing any one pain but she likes the role play and she's getting me into "kinky" sex. And I've had to change my "Interests" due to her!

Although, I don't consider what we do as kinky I think it's great sex. I've done things with her I HAVE never done with another woman. The best part for me is: It truns her on more than I but, I'm getting addicted!

So right about being willing to be educated. For this I'd love to be the Teacher's pet! LOL

Ivy is so right about trust. "Cora" and I have spent a day zip lining and on another visit, ocean kayaking. In zip lining you have to trust your partner and guide, this sport can be dangerous and trust is the only way to over come it.

Same for Ocean kayaking. People look at the ocean and say "Oh, that's so beuatiful and I'd love to go swimming." Well, I've been swimming since I can remember. I saved my brother from drowing when I was 7yrs old and almost drown my self. I started surfing when I was 10, SCUBA and sailing at 13 and the ocean scares the shit out of me.

I tell people: Don't ever turn your back on the water or take it for granted. It WILL kill you faster than any thing else! So, naturally, Cora and I have developed a great deal of trust in each other.

I believe, as a man and a hobbyist, that trust in a relationship is the BIGGEST TURN ON. Sex is good but, Trust is fantastic!

hmm...i also repell and do all that fun stuff...you may be the one to get tied up! there is tons of fun things to do in nashville...especially with me! ;)

I provide FemDom and BDSM services, and have done so for many years. Its very popular with executives. And with Brits (of which we have a sizable community).

Very few escorts will go submissive (myself included) because its simply too dangerous either in the hands of a novice or a real sadist.

For myself, I like wearing the kinky outfits, the fantasy role play and getting into the mind games. As a turn-on, its very erotic and hot!

This is a picture of me as my alter-ego: Lady Dominixe

Dominixe, you look very hot and sexy in this dress. Would love to get myself a lesson from you....
Good day!

And I would luv to get my hands on you! ... ;)

I LIKE TO BE DOMINATED BUT WITHOUT BEING FLOGGED AND THRASHED TO A PULP!!I PREFER TO EXPLORE MY FANTASY WITH A LADY WHO LIKES TO DOMINATE BUT WHO ISN'T THE HARD PRO DOMME,HENCE MY AD HERE.IF IT'S FUN AND ENJOYMENT FOR BOTH,THEN BOTH CAN GAIN PLEASURE,AND GET INTO THE MORE INTENSE SCENES TOGETHER AND WITH TRUST IN EACH OTHER,WHICH IS WHY I PREFER TO GET A LADY OVER 3 OR 4 DAYS TO EXPLORE WITH,BUT WITHOUT MUCH SUCCESS WITH REGARD TO MY TRIP TO BKK IN DEC.ON THIS SUBJECT HAS ANYONE HERE CHECKED OUT ANY OF THE FETISH CLUBS IN BKK SUCH AS DEMONIA AND BAR BAR,HEARD CONFLICTING REPORTS ABOUT BOTH THESE PLACES.
THANKS,JAIMEZ

Forgive me, but I find it difficult to believe that you can't find a dom lady in Australia to meet your needs. From what I have seen, you have many choices for escorts there. Regarding your Bangkok trip, have you talked to the Thai ladies (May361, Jade Tan, Apie) that have posted to this thread? They can tell you more about the fetish scene in Bangkok than I can.

You should direct your question to other Hobbyists. We ladies have been trying to encourage more hobbyists to participate in these discussions, but alas, many still choose to be lurkers.

P.S. Not to be anal retentive, but using ALL CAPS in your posts is considered to be poor etiquette. Its equivalent to SHOUTING.

Didn't realize the caps were on,sorry if any offence was caused.Had a few direct contacts via e-mail with regard to my BKK trip,so things looking up!!Thanks for your reply.Jaimez

I love to dominate I get alot of business where that is what they want and I get off being in control completely. I like to think that alot of men get turned on in role play being told what to do it doesnt even have to get hardcore even light play really gets them off. I have even had guys beg to cum on my feet I really love that one.

i think more and more people are asking for that. very much sth which is strongly coming up...