Forum - premature ejaculation ??

ok im not sure what to do ive had this problem for a long time, premature ejaculation, as soon as i penetrate a women i orgasim, please ladies any advice would be of help. thanks.

Hon have you talked to your DR? How old are you? I do know some other men that do that too - if it makes you feel better. Are U able to work it back up for a second pop?

you have to change the way you think babe I would say if you want to take it slow think slow pre ejac is a state of mind and I would masterbate a few time's a day I read this slow's it down two. but hey multi pop's are fun two

It's mind over matter bro. When you feel like you're in that zone, try pinching your skin, think of something else (Like math, business) it'll help delay the cumming.

Oh well, my mouth is always looking for a load---best advice, ask a Doc.

Easy!

Relax, take it easy and do not rush. For men to control is not easy but there are some tricks. It is all a matter of mental. Think of something else, a stress situation, a bad memory or count numbers. anything to make you cool down.

Some men also use 2 condoms. This way you will feel less.

Good luck!

As my own experience says, the best methode is to control the breathing. Pinching and thinking are worse because of some collateral effects :)

If my guy has this problem i just try to be more caressing and kind with him. I ask him not to worry about this and the problem goes away very soon!

LoL... :)
Have you ever met such guys, Apie?

I join Kotik's question! I have never met such odd guys!

Not really!
Sometimes one is very excited and will come fast. Maybe it is also just what you think. You come fast does not mean you have a problem. You were jsut very excited. nothing else

It doesn't make sense to think of unpleasant things during sex to delay cumming. I think kotikkk's suggestion of controlling breathing is a good one. Try really deep breathing and relaxing during sex.

Also, if you cum "too soon," you can still continue doing pleasurable things; no need to stop.

There are tantric practitioners that can help men with premature ejaculation.

Thank you, Daka. Aye, I usually try not to advise what I have not tried myself! A good way to keep the conscience clear... :-)))

Apie
I think its a good idea to offer them condoms with anesthetic lubrication. Like Sico Marathon for example. It would be more useful.

This idea might be useful as a temporary measure.

I think that real success will require a number of visits to an experienced, compassionate provider.

I'd recommend that the man lie down with his eyes closed and concentrate on deep breathing and total relaxation while his partner gives him a light sensual massage. If she's very careful, she can keep him on the edge for quite a while before he cums.

One successful session like this can help to starting down a path to solving the problem for good.

Then, on future occasions, she can increase the degree and type of stimulation bit by bit.

At the very least, someone's going to have a very good time...